Who is Becca Tilley? All about Hayley Kiyoko's new fiancée

Lesbian popstar Hayley Kiyoko has been off the market for a long time, but she officially put a ring on it in July 2025. Her engagement to long-time girlfriend Becca Tilley absolutely delighted fans who have watched their adorable relationship blossom ever since they went public.

If you've skipped out on the social media fawning, you may have questions. So let's get everyone up to speed on all things Becca Tilley!

Who is Becca Tilley?

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Tilley is known to many of us here as the woman who captured the heart of Lesbian Jesus, but she was already famous in her own right prior to their relationship becoming public knowledge. The 36-year-old is a reality show personality, influencer, and the co-host of a People's Choice Award-winning podcast, Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad.

Was Becca Tilley on 'The Bachelor?'

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Tilley was on The Bachelor in 2015, competing for the heart of Chris Soules (season 19). She was the runner-up, placing second after Whitney Bischoff. She returned the following year as part of Ben Higgins' season, where she was eliminated after week 7.

When did Becca Tilley come out?

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It wasn't until Tilley and Kiyoko went public with their relationship that the Bachelor Nation alum began discussing her sexuality publicly.

In a 2023 Instagram Q&A Tilley confirmed that she realized she's "always been attracted to both."

"I don't think I knew what the attraction towards women meant, so it would just be like 'oh I have a girl crush,'" she said at the time. "But isn't that just a crush on a woman? But it was always Jack AND Rose for me."

How long have Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko been together?

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Although the two lovebirds waited until 2022 to confirm their long-speculated relationship at the launch party for Kiyoko's Bachelor-themed "For the Girls" music video, they had quietly been dating for four years by that point.

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Fittingly, they actually met at the launch party for Kiyoko's album, Expectations. Over the next few years, Tilley repeatedly confirmed that she was dating someone, but that she was keeping her love life private for the time being. All the same, it was obvious that the relationship was plenty serious when she admitted on her podcast in 2020 that she was 95% sure she would marry her mystery partner. Foreshadowing!

Are Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko engaged?

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Fans have watched from the sidelines as the love story between Tilley and Kiyoko has continued to play out over the last few years. From public support of one another to couples' costumes to lyrics inspired by their shared happiness, there's been no question that the two are in this for the long haul.

Kiyoko made that official on July 10, 2025, when she celebrated their engagement on Instagram, writing, "My dream girl said yes to forever."

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And we couldn't be happier for them!

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